Holistic Approach to Wellness and Well-being
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We all run from things. I always tell my clients: it’s very easy to find out what you don’t like, we do it all the time! You find yourself saying things like: I hate it when your spouse leaves the toilet seat up, it is so incredibly frustrating to come home and be bombarded with a thousand things...
- Written by Bridging Harts Staff
When I was a graduate student studying counseling, one of my university supervisors passed on this advice: “Everyone should do improv.” To my relief, I believe the sentiment can be followed without actually joining a traveling comedy troupe. She offered the advice after I described a common...
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I sometimes incorporate ten scales into therapy. I ask clients to rate the event, and their reaction, from one to ten. When the scales appear tipped to opposite extremes, we may have found an area to work on. Take road rage, for example. How upsetting is it when another drive cuts you off? We may...
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A good friend called me for help last week. Just before she dialed me, she had felt a rush of dizziness which we later hypothesized may have been caused by a temporary low blood pressure after standing quickly from her seat. The sensation reminded her of physical symptoms she had experienced...
I have a running list on my phone titled “Quotes”. This is a note dedicated to various (you guessed it) quotes on various things, ranging from therapy to philosophy to politics and on and on. These are pieces of insight I have gained over the years coming from various books, TV shows, movies, and...
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The “circle of control” is a therapeutic exercise that can help visually define what is inside and outside of an individual’s control. I think about it as a concept often in my work. Three circles are drawn of three sizes, within each other like nesting dolls. The innermost, smallest circle...
We all struggle with communication. No matter who you are or who you are with, there is always going to be some sort of adjustment or awareness to help communicate with the other person. And that’s because… its HARD. There are so many confounding variables that contribute to disjointed...
Researcher and storyteller Brené Brown has profoundly impacted the way we understand human connection through her work on vulnerability, courage, and empathy. One of her most compelling teachings is the distinction between sympathy and empathy, illustrated beautifully through her metaphor of...